4/18/2008

Future marriages come from dating: Single/Dating IQ Singles


by Bonnie ZC

What is your dating IQ? How many successful dates vs fail dates? Your dating IQ does make a different.

How many intelligent individuals would spend valuable dollars on a lawyer, doctor, or CPA with an unhealthy IQ? We would expect them to be qualified in his/her chosen field.

In general it takes 4 years of college education to earn a degree, and longer for a higher degree. There are no manadatory schooling to teach individuals on how to date. Dating skill is a necessity when divorcing spouses are a commonality. Ones dating IQ should be healthy - it affect the future because future marriages come from dating.

Dating should be a trial and error self assessment. It could help you learn many things about yourself while dating.
1)You should always be honest with yourself while dating. It is a must. Please be honest to yourself. Know yourself. Know inside yourself, what do you really need.

2)Do not settle when a date does not meet your standards. Please love yourself as well as God loves you. Do not under value yourself. Do your best, so you deserve the best one.

3)Do not tolerate anyone who does not treat you with the required respect. Remember this most thing : Love consists honest respect. Respect each other.

Dating IQ is having the necessary knowledge of oneself inorder to date wisely. Ones should always be self-prepared. Routinely give yourself a self-examination test on personal likes and dislikes attributes that are important to you in a relationship before you actually begin dating. Why would you date a smoker when you are anti smoking? There is a saying 'opposite attract', it should be base on quality that could be consider a compliment.

Learning how to date could lessen the divorce rate because having an healthy dating IQ will help you to prevent drama by spotting it on the surface.

Do not let your environment, friend, or family rush you into dating for the sake of not being lonely. You are a human being who deserved to know what you are getting yourself into including the inner quality of a potential date.

Knowing how to date is not only beneficial in the present, but also in the future. What you are getting in the present may be a prediction of what you will be getting in the future. If you do not like what you are getting in the present you are still a free agent - become available!

Do not forget those 3 things mentioned above : Honest to yourself, Standard, and Respect.

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